How to Prepare for Your Family For A Photoshoot | 8 Easy Tips for a Stress-Free Photoshoot

Family Photography, Extended Family Photography

How to Prepare Your Family for a Photoshoot


Family photos are more than just pictures—they’re memories you’ll treasure for years to come. A little preparation can help everyone feel relaxed, confident, and ready to enjoy the experience. Here are my top tips to help your family have a fun and stress-free photoshoot.


1. Choose Outfits That Coordinate, Not Match


Gone are the days of everyone wearing the exact same white shirt and jeans. Instead, choose a colour palette of 2–4 complementary colours and mix textures and styles within those tones.


Some popular combinations include:


  • Neutrals and earth tones
  • Soft blues and creams
  • Sage green and beige
  • Dusty pink and grey


Avoid clothing with large logos, bright neon colours, or busy patterns that can distract from your family’s connection.


2. Prioritise Comfort


If someone feels uncomfortable, it will show in the photos. Choose outfits that fit well and allow movement, especially for young children who love to run, play, and explore.


Comfortable families are happy families—and happy families create beautiful photos.


3. Talk to Your Kids About the Session


Children respond best when they know what to expect. Instead of telling them they need to smile for photos, explain that you’re going on a fun family adventure where you’ll play games, cuddle, and spend time together.


The less pressure they feel, the more natural their smiles will be.


4. Don’t Stress About Perfect Behaviour


Some of the most meaningful photographs happen in the in-between moments—snuggles, giggles, curious expressions, and even the occasional silly face.


Your children don’t need to sit still or look at the camera the entire time. My job is to capture your family as you are.


5. Make Sure Everyone Is Well Rested and Fed


A tired, hungry child rarely enjoys having their photo taken.


Try to:


  • Schedule naps as normal
  • Bring water and snacks
  • Avoid rushing before the session


A calm start makes a huge difference.


6. Arrive a Little Early


Give yourself extra time to find parking, settle the kids, and enjoy the location before we begin. Arriving relaxed helps everyone ease into the session naturally.


7. Bring a Few Essentials


Depending on your children’s ages, consider bringing:


  • Water bottles
  • Non-messy snacks
  • Wipes
  • A favourite comfort item
  • A spare outfit for little ones


Hopefully we won’t need them, but it’s always good to be prepared.


8. Focus on Connection, Not Perfection


The most beautiful family photos aren’t about perfect smiles or perfect outfits. They’re about genuine connection.


Hold hands. Give cuddles. Tell jokes. Play with your children. Love on your family.


Those are the moments you’ll want to remember years from now.


Trust the Process


When you book a family photoshoot, you don’t need to worry about posing, directing your children, or creating perfect moments. That’s my job.


Your only job is to show up, spend time with the people you love most, and enjoy the experience.


The best photographs happen when families relax and simply enjoy being together.